How To Rear Good Children

Good things come out of the University of Alabama. Well, more than just football. Dr. Nick Stinnett teaches marriage and family classes there. I heard him speak at the Faulkner University lectureship back in 1998. His theme was: “How to Rear Good Children.”

Here are his points:

Give your child unconditional love and acceptance. It is important for a child to know that a parent’s love and acceptance do not depend on the child’s performance in academics, sports, or any other area of parental expectation. God had such a love toward us – 1 John 3:1.

Help your child grow in wisdom. Take a moment to read Proverbs 3:13-17. The beginning of wisdom is to understand that wisdom comes from God. This is taught by providing your child with opportunities to make decisions and to solve problems from an early age.

Give your child a deep spiritual faith. Help children believe in God and that He will work in their lives. Train them to ask Him for help and guidance. Teach them to trust God to help them. Instill in them a love for and dedication to reading His word.

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Teach your child skills in how to manage stress. The biggest cause of stress for children is getting involved in too many things. Set priorities and let some things go. Help them develop a sense of humor as well (Prov. 17:22). Physical exercise will help one deal with stress also. Teach them to internalize certain Bible verses like Romans 8:31.

Teach your children to love, honor, and respect others (John 13:14-15). God wants us to honor each other in all our relationships through mutual respect, caring, and being thoughtful of each other’s needs.

Give your child roots. Roots provide strength and stability. This is done by developing a sense of community with neighbors, family, and especially the church. Do what you can to get them involved with adopted grandparents in your congregation. That inter-generational relationship will do wonders for their self-esteem.

I believe these points will help you raise great kids.

–Paul Holland

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