Is it truly possible to “rejoice always (Phil.4:4)”?
First of all, we struggle with joy because we often use joy and happiness interchangeable, yet they are fundamentally different. Happiness is an emotion. It is a feeling that can happen to you. It is temporary. Joy often presents itself most in moments of happiness, but joy is more than an emotion. It is a foundational state of being. Where happiness reacts to circumstances, joy can transcend them.
Second, we struggle to find joy due to our current circumstances. Temporary focus and unhappiness distracts us from our eternal goal. When we are enduring ongoing hardships like poor health, a hostile work environment, bad economy, etc., we allow unhappiness to steal our joy. But again, joy does not necessarily equate happiness. One may think “God wants me to be happy,” yet God never promised happiness. But God does offer us eternal joy, which leads to our third struggle.
Third, we struggle to find joy when we do not have the proper source or foundation of joy. We search for joy in all the wrong places. We search for joy in our society (or, at least, we lose our joy because we expect for our society/country to give us joy rather than sadness). Of course, we are constantly let down. We allow our joy to come from what we do, but what happens when we lose our job? What happens when we retire? What happens when we are physically unable to do the hobby we love? We allow the primary source of our joy to be from our relationships (friends, spouses, children). But what happens when our children move away or go astray? What happens when our friends move away or an argument damages the friendship? What happens when a spouse is unfaithful or passes away? The source of our joy is gone, and therefore our joy is gone. Relationships are important, but all relationships, to some degree, are temporary.
The fact of the matter is we cannot rejoice always if the source of our joy is not eternal. Paul doesn’t simply say, “Rejoice, always.” He says, “Rejoice, in the Lord, always.” In order for joy to be eternal and transcend above circumstances, we must find that joy in the Lord. Prior to this statement, in Philippians 3:18-19, Paul addresses his heartbreak over the many who have their minds set on earthly things. They are devoted to earthly, temporary happiness instead of heavenly, eternal joy. But followers of God must know that “our citizenship is in heaven, and from it we await a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ, who will transform our lowly body to be like his glorious body, by the power that enables him even to subject all things to himself (Phil. 3:20-21).” I love my wife, but she cannot grant me citizenship in heaven. I love my children, but they don’t have the power to transform my lowly body to a glorious one. Earthly relationships are important, but let us never neglect our relationship with the One who is the source of all joy.
The joy he offers transcends all temporary circumstances.
In the Lord we find joy with peace. In Philippians 4:7, Paul says that we have the “peace of God which surpasses all understanding (and it) will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Eternal peace allows us to free our minds of anxious thoughts and protect our hearts from joy stealers.
In the Lord we find joy with trust. As David writes in Psalm 37:3-4, ““Trust in the Lord, and do good; dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness. Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Trust in God provides us with the ability to find joy even in trying times (James 1:2-4).
Finally, in the Lord we find joy with contentment. Paul is writing this joy-filled letter from a prison cell, yet he shares that “…I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need.” How? Because his joy is found in Christ, the source of all joy. This is why he says triumphantly, “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.”
Let us do the same. Find peace in the Lord. Put your trust in the Lord. Find contentment in and from the Lord and you will be able to rejoice in the Lord, always.
Jared McLeod