The Gileadites to the Ephraimites, recorded in Judges 12:1-7

Your Speech Betrays You

You may not realize you have an accent until you move to a different part of the country. Rachel and I have been amused and amazed as we acclimate to our new home in Michigan. Whether we are at a Subway restaurant or getting our drivers’ licenses, it doesn’t take but a few words from our mouths until the inevitable question comes: “Where are you from?” One man (for whom I had to spell our last names) grinned and said he did not have to deal often with people having accents. No one has been rude; we have been amused.

Clearly, our speech betrays us – similar to the test given by the Gileadites to the Ephraimites, recorded in Judges 12:1-7. The Ephraimites could not pronounce “Shibboleth.” It came out “Sibboleth.” Romanians, we learned, have a difficult time pronouncing the “th” sound. Americans have trouble rolling our r’s. Our speech betrays us.

It is not just how we pronounce words, either. Often, it is the way we say things. While we lived in Romania, our team donated toys and fruit to a children’s hospital. We put them in small bags and left them on the beds, if the child was not in the room. One time, I left one on the bed and, in the hall way, was asked about it. I responded, in Romanian: “I left it on the bed.” That’s how we would say it in English. A little way down the hall, the same thing happened, but I overheard a nurse tell a mom that I left it “at the bed.” Notice the difference in vocabulary. I did not say anything grammatically or syntactically wrong. It just wasn’t the way Romanians would say it. Our speech betrays us.

What does your speech say about you? Do you show by your speech that you love and respect your spouse? Are you rude? Critical? Sarcastic? Snarky? Impatient? Sharp? Insulting? Do you show by your speech that you love and respect your children? Does your speech show you are patient? Loving? Joyful? Peaceful? Kind?

What does your speech say about you? Does it show that you love Jesus? That you follow Him? Is He not far from your lips at any given time? If He dwells in your heart and motivates your life, how can you constantly be rude, critical, sarcastic, etc.?
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Consider these proverbs: “The mouth of the righteous brings forth wisdom” (Prov. 10:31). “The tongue of the wise brings healing” (Prov. 12:18). “The tongue of the wise commends knowledge” (Prov. 15:2). “A gentle tongue is a tree of life” (Prov. 15:4). “Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble” (Prov. 21:23). “The teaching of kindness is on her tongue” (Prov. 31:26).

Remember, your speech betrays you. What is it saying?

–Paul Holland

 

 

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